http://www.wikihow.com/Quit-Caffeine
Tip no.8
Don't go at it alone. Find someone to quit with you. If you can't find that kind of support, promise to someone whom you love and respect that you will quit caffeine. Thus, consuming caffeine in any form will make you break your promise, and this will provide you with another incentive to stay on the wagon.
YOU SCORED AS:
An Awakening Empath:
You are now awakening to your gifts of perceiving the energy and emotions of other people.
You are learning to embrace your empathic and intuitive abilities rather than consider them a curse, and are learning techniques and tools to empower yourself.
You would be encouraged to continue learning coping skills and techniques so that the negative energy of other people doesn’t overwhelm you (e.g. Dr. Michael Smith's free eCourse & monthly Empath Connection newsletter).
Also, advanced instruction is available with The Complete Empath Toolkit .
You may also want to find a spiritual teacher and mentor to help you refine your abilities to perceive other people.
Link: http://www.empathconnection.com/quiz.html
19. Innocence |
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Zen says that if you drop knowledge - and within knowledge everything is included; your name, your identity, everything, because this has been given to you by others - if you drop all that has been given by others, you will have a totally different quality to your being: innocence. This will be a crucifixion of the persona, the personality, and there will be a resurrection of your innocence. You will become a child again, reborn. Osho Dang Dang Doko Dang Chapter 7 Commentary: The old man in this card radiates a childlike delight in the world. There is a sense of grace surrounding him, as if he is at home with himself and with what life has brought. He seems to be having a playful communication with the praying mantis on his finger, as if the two of them are the greatest friends. The pink flowers cascading around him represent a time of letting go, relaxation and sweetness. They are a response to his presence, a reflection of his own qualities. 我們今日禪卡組合很適合來唱一首歌 We r the world We r the children Lets be kids |
the so called long D relationship
it’s not about distance physically.
but heart
there’s nothing worth worrying
if two souls stick together closely
some thoughts after the conversation with u yesterday
my dear twin flame
thanks for being here and
lighting up my life
i love u
小時候
第一次強烈感受到 所謂的”我”不屬於我自己
是在1996年的夏天
國一要升國二的暑假
1996年七月
當時，阿湯哥監製同時主演的電影Mission Impossible風靡全台
Ethan Hunt帥氣的形象擄掠了七歲到七十歲歐巴桑的心
當然 也包括我的(?
為了表現我的Ethan Hunt的熱愛(?
看完電影的隔天
我就衝進鄰近的家庭理髮店 跟老闆說：”幫我剪平頭！”
老闆聽了我的要求 也很阿莎力
拿起了電剃刀 就開始在我的短髮上來回嚕了起來
剪完後
第一個感到震驚的 應該是我本人
只能說
胖子不適合剪平頭 (國中的時候真的很胖…)
再來
就是我媽
我有點忘記 詳細的過程
模糊的印象裡 只記得從一進門起，我媽就不斷地尖叫
然後下一秒 我就跪在客廳的地板上了
接這是長達數小時的鬼打牆式怒罵
“剪這什麼頭，不男不女…” 之類的
是說 從小就被我媽罵到大
其實話語再怎麼難聽
我也都沒放在心上 早就麻痺了
不同的是
這次 我爸也跳出來了
平時 對於管教小孩 他都挺沉默
扮演著good cop角色
但是 這次 他也跟著我媽一起怒吼了
他罵人的方式很有自己風格
其中一句 讓我牢牢記(恨)到現在
他說: “你以為你是什麼玩意兒？人家竹林七賢是功成名就了，才開始特立獨行。你這樣，只是愛作怪的異類！讓人看不起”
是嗎？是這樣嗎？沒有功成名就 就不能有自己嗎？
我心中充滿了憤怒
是阿 我就是在價值觀這麼扭曲的家庭下長大
從此我開始選擇沉默 滿足他們”沒有自我”的要求
同時 在心中不斷地和自己對話
小心維護我跟”自我”良好的關係
我的黑暗成長故事
floating along the orbit
in the deep dark three dimensional outer space
feeling lost sometimes
“this is P7 calling, do u copy”
but your voice always save me from the abyss
locate me in the boundless universe
I know it’s where my heart is longing for
a blossom?
I’d say it’s more like a tree.
roots occupying my mind are like charlotte’s web
it’s my love for you
it grows from a tiny seed
then comes the stems, the leafs and then the sweet blossoms
together, we breathe and feel our hearts beating with passion
we live, not only exist.
it will go on and on and on
growing stronger day by day
it's my love for you
